My Approach

The Developmental Model is a well-respected and award winning approach to couples therapy, and I am a Graduate of The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy Training under Ellyn Bader Ph.D. at The Couples Institute. 

 

More importantly, I have seen the concepts of this model create change very quickly in my client's relationships (I also use these concepts in my own relationships). I will guide you in reflecting on your stage of development, identifying ways to bring your authentic self to the relationship, and learning how to experience empathy with your partner. 

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You will hear much more about this model if you work with me, but in a nutshell, we will

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• Work with the tasks of Differentiation in your relationship to combat “walking on eggshells”, feeling like you always give in or collapse into what your partner wants, living in silos away from each other, or constantly being in conflict

• Use Attachment theory to re-create feeling welcome in your relationship, without constant stalemates or rugged individualism

• Practice experiential methods based in Neuroscience to help you tolerate and better understand the triggers in your relationship​​

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"Tools are about using your mind. They neglect the heart. Merging your heart and mind is what creates the transformation." - Dr. Peter Pearson, The Couples Institute